If you are looking to enjoy the lifestyle while on holiday we definitely recommend a cruise. With provocative theme nights, clothing optional areas, private playrooms as well as sensual & sophisticated accommodation it’s an experience that can change lives forever, as Rachel Kramer Busself finds out.

As told to: Rachel Kramer Bussel –  Elle

Last spring my husband and I were looking for an adults-only vacation to celebrate our tenth anniversary. I came across a “clothing optional lifestyle takeover cruise.” The materials talked about dance parties, clothing-optional areas, and playrooms, including a dungeon. We assumed “lifestyle” meant BDSM. It was only after we’d booked the trip that we realized it meant swingers.