Sydney’s premier swingers club, The Couples Club is Sydney’s first and ONLY council approved sex on premises venue, so you can rest assured that the club ticks all the boxes when it comes to providing a top quality entertainment environment.
Adult Match Maker has been around since 2002 and we constantly hear about swingers who have explored the swinging lifestyle through the site. Of course, there are a myriad of adult dating websites out there today, but Adult Match Maker has really forged a strong connection with the swinging community as they do with those seeking casual sexual encounters.
About the Author – Chantelle Austin
Chantelle Austin is the pseudonym for relationship designer and lifestyle expert Rach. She is often seen in the media speaking openly about her swinging relationship and she wrote The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples.
I tell you what; the women in the lifestyle are generally in the best position to get what they want and single women even more so! By the way, we call them “unicorns” because they are almost mythical creatures and they are very much in demand!
When you go onto any dating oriented website, the ratio of males to females is almost astronomical. The ladies really do get to pick and choose. Couples are close behind and the poor single guys have to prove they are better than their competition just to get a look in (that’s a whole other article). But it’s the single gals that really can get a lot from their swinging playmates and the lifestyle in general, so to the curious single gals out there, this article is for you.
I may have an ulterior motive on this one but meh, I can write what I want!
I get a lot of Requests From Couples for Single Women.
They want to try a threesome, the female of the couple is generally bi/bi-curious, and most women I know have tried it or continue to enjoy it. So they are looking for that special someone who wants no-strings-attached play dates with at least a woman (in most cases) and potentially a man too.
Couples find it harder, at times, to find another couple where they are both attracted to the other two. Often there is only one person that a partner is attracted to, so it takes more time to find the right people. For that reason, a single lady is ideal (and it’s not always about the girl on girl action).
Swingers are a Girl’s Best Friend!
Being a single lady in the scene means that you often get free entry into couples events (that sometimes cost couples over $100 to attend), invitations to come back repeatedly, referrals to other clubs/events/couples (as a playmate) and single ladies get to pick and choose who they play with. You could quite easily fill your phone contacts with couples you can call on to enjoy a night of no-strings-attached raunchiness.
The swinging scene is a playground that creates quite a safe space (no pressure environments and with the right people), for women to explore their sexuality, and to explore what sex has to offer with it’s various positions, a multitude of playmates who all have different skills and techniques, and a bunch of sexy people on the menu. I have personally learned more about how my body works, and discovered new ways to enjoy sex by being in the lifestyle. Oh and have met some very sexy people along the way!
If you Your Intention is Purely Physical & to Have fun, Then Couples are Looking for you.
The majority of couples have a very solid relationship so as long as your intention is purely physical; to have fun and then move on eventually, whether that’s after the first time or years from now, then couples are looking for you (no, really, they are… and lots of them!) For the same reason, they are safe to enjoy that physical fun with if you aren’t ready to settle down because they are already very happy in their relationship.
The best part is that couples generally treat their playmates with respect and are keen to have a single female join them on a regular basis; they will do their best to impress and take care of you. Some fantastic friendships with benefits have started this way… Sometimes couples even have a beloved single man in their friendship circle and cupid gets a look in. You just never know when you’re going to meet a special someone!
Play Safe, Have fun – go Home With a Smile on Your Face.
The majority of people in the lifestyle are committed to playing safe, and many couples have children so they are not likely to engage in unsafe sex. Many also get regularly tested and treated if anything shows up. It’s very important to the couples in the scene to be disease free and hygienic. Word can get around about who to avoid just as easily as about who to enjoy. For single women who want to play as safe as possible, the swinging couples are at the top of the list!
So if you are a woman who really enjoys sex, is open-minded, isn’t intentionally looking to settle down into a relationship, is curious or exploring sexuality, likes meeting new people and sometimes just wants some one-night stands without having to pick up some random in a pub/club, you may be the mythical unicorn in the room!
However as always, no pressure. Come and play or just check out the swinging scene.
Newbies most welcome.
We expect the same wall to wall eye candy, erotic tease and everlasting temptation that has characterised the Sydney Sensual Ball.
The Sensual Ball continues to be the premier couples event on the Sydney circuit. This annual event on the Sunday of Queens Birthday weekend, occurs in an excellent location in the Sydney CBD with an expected turnout of about 500 couples. The Sydney Ball has outgrown St James Hotel and we are moving back to the bigger revamped Space Bar for 2016.
Stilettos Players Parties
We have a dance floor, mirror ball and lighting to set the mood. We play the best dance music around, as we love to add that playful dimension to our parties and do not like to see clicky little groups that make people feel uncomfortable or left out.
Our emphasis is on fun, laughter and meeting like minded, sexy people. Stilettos has a reputation for being the most relaxed and friendly swingers party in Melbourne.
Kimmi's is a social and extremely playful gathering for adults looking for other genuine fun, friendly, relaxed, open minded and sexy people who want to meet in a stylish, clean and very cheeky environment.
Kimmi's "Play House" allows her guests to explore and play in a safe, secure, private and a relaxing atmosphere. These parties allow you to enjoy yourself by meeting other fantastic genuine people who have chosen the same playful but secret lifestyle.
The Monkey Club
After your arrival you will be given a "detailed" tour of the venue which is spread over two floors, and consists of mainly open plan play areas.
Once you have been introduced to your fellow playmates, the next 1.5 to 2 hours is yours to unwind and get rid of "some" of those nerves (yes they are normal, otherwise you wouldn't be human).
The very seductive 5 star environment is furnished with imported furniture from the UK, FRANCE and JAPAN, and paintings from the four corners of the globe.
If you would like to be introduced to some classy, intelligent, professional couples and join a fun evening in an upmarket environment where the emphasis is social & class, send us a message and we will send by return information about our parties.
We have 2 types of parties. The main party for couples is the dinner party. This is where you can meet other couples in a sit down dinner environment. We will move you around after each course to another table. That way you will be able to meet other couples.
We have many theme dress up nights. They are great fun and erotic!
The longest running and most popular swingers club and swingers party in Melbourne, with around 80-100 people attending on average during Summer, and between 70-90 in winter. There tends to be roughly equal numbers of people in their 20s, 30s and 40s.
Friendly atmosphere - Big Heated Spa. Erotic dress & BYO fun drinks and towels.
Nervous first timers welcome. Strict ‘No Pressure’ rule applies
Diversionz hosts nights for couples and mixed singles. Friday nights are party central with couples and all singles invited to come along and partake of Diversionz delights. Saturday nights we mix it up a bit more, it could be a theme night, couples & mixed singles night, bi night, gang bang or Club Cuddly night; check the calendar to see what’s on when.
Diversionz has 7 play rooms, 6 of which are closable, the 7th has a sex swing and a few things to tickle your fancy. Outside we have a double queen size play platform in our huge non-smoking zone which also has a sexy under the stars spa. Also outside we have a large smoker’s zone. Inside we have a fully staffed BYO bar with a pool table, dance floor with strippers pole & digital juke box so you choose the music.
The night is exclusively for Couples and Ladies, only! Femme Fantaisie is a bi-girl friendly party which allows you to explore the sensual touch of a woman in a warm, relaxed & alluring environment. Tantalise your sexual desires & fantasies to their limits with like minded people.
Friday Night Parties for Couples/Ladies & (Males U/40)
This is a party for Couples, Ladies & (Males U/40YRS). Friday night parties are for more experienced swingers. All guests are expected to play on the night.
The club has been running since 2011 whilst approval was sought from the local Gold Coast City Council. In June 2012, it was the very first club to have passed a stringent set of conditions to become the Gold Coasts first council approved Swingers Club.
The club boasts a professionally staffed bar with quality service; but we do not sell any alcohol so please do not ask! It is BYO Drinks and we provide all mixers etc. We have an amazing nightclub style dance-floor with our own D.J where you can get your 'sexy on', 9 full sized 'playrooms', including Queenslands only dedicated Bondage/fetish room and Orgy room. We also have one of the best outdoor smoking and meeting areas and pool table zones of any club in the country. The club is reverse cycle air-conditioned and is wonderfully warm in winter, yet lovely and cool in summer, maintaining just the right amount of 'heat' to have fun with your new friends.
The Pussy Cats
We look forward to seeing you at Australia's premier private "invitation only" adult party venue.
With swingers parties happening every weekend there has never been a better time to get involved in the lifestyle. There are clubs and parties that cater for each and every level of comfort, so get out there and mix it up with some fantastic people who will go out of their way to ensure you have a fantastic time! Click – CONTINUE READING – to see full party listings for Australia
A Novel About Swinging
Released today is an exciting new novel by swinging lifestyle guru and best selling novelist, Cooper S. Beckett. Known for his best selling memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging and Polyamory and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast, we are super excited to get stuck into his brand new novel, which takes us back to the beginning about being a newbie in the swinging lifestyle.
We all come to a point in our lives where we finally ask the ever-looming question, “Is this all there is?” And most of us coast along afterwards, just accepting that the answer to that question is probably, “Yes, this is it.” Sometimes, though, we’re lucky. Sometimes we run into the right people at the right time.
Ryan and Jennifer are at that point in their marriage, asking that question. Luckily, tonight at a friend’s holiday party, they’re about to run into those very right people at exactly the right time. Bruce and Paige have successfully crossed the Rubicon into the realm of “what else there is.” They’ve discovered delights and a way of living that Ryan and Jennifer have only ever dreamed about.
Their secret? Bruce and Paige are swingers. And very soon now, thanks to a chance meeting and a new friendship, Ryan and Jennifer will close their eyes, clasp hands, and jump into the deep end of life, exploring the untold wonders of sexuality. Hedonistic pleasures that they can’t even fathom yet, threesomes and sex parties and a deep connection with friends and with each other. The swinging lifestyle.
Today is the day they proclaim: “There is more.” Today is the day they change their lives.
Read a review and extract of the book over on the AMM blog page.
Purchase Cooper S. Beckett’s novel here.