You’ll learn about different bondage styles and techniques and leave ready to take the ropes back to your bedroom!

Bring your imagination, and if you already have some, your rope.

Our guest teacher for this class is Rake, who, since moving to Sydney over 2 years ago, from New York City has been an active member of the kink scene in Sydney, tying people up:
(whenever they stand still long enough) in all manor of sexy clubs and venues.
Rake is looking forward to corrupting more people into the wonderful ways of rope.

Date & Location:

This class will be held at the Couples Club, Sunday, 31 August 5:30pm till 8:00pm.
Bookings are essential as the class will be restricted to only 10 couples to ensure that everyone gets the opportunity to learn, practice and experience the pleasure that rope can add to your sex life.
Book via email couplesclub@hotmail.com 
Couples can stay on once the club opens at 8 pm that night for an additional $20
(to use their new skills).

Hi, we're Denise + Jay, (and I'm Denise !) . This is sort of a thank you and a letter if you want to put it on your website. We went to The Couples Club about 3 months ago, well its taken this long to send you something so soreeeyy, but we had a great (our first) time. Very nice setting, you have a pretty and quite lavish club. We will be back next time we are in Sydney.
We were a bit nervous at the start (after the tour and hullos) but soon found ourselves in the bar with another couple called Jen and Sam who were also there for their first time ! Likes attract I think! We were lucky we all walked in about the same time. We explained that we were not going to swing but just play with each other and enjoy the atmosphere, and let everyone enjoy us, and Jen said that was exactly what they were going to do too. Its exciting talking and giggling and then when you relax, realising that soon you are going to be nude with some people you've just met ! After lots of conversation with each other in the bar, all four of us had a walk around the club. Of course we were dressed (or not too dressed !) appropriately for the different parts of the club we went to. Being nudey-beach goers we were used to being nude with other people around, but this was just a little bit more exiting.
Of course the spa was the last stop ! After that (and some submerged stroking that was just too obvious - especially after Sam got out of the spa !) all four of us realised that the next stop might be the group area. When we got there we got plenty of inviting looks from the couples already there. Being new to this, we had four pounding hearts when we walked in. Jay and I began kissing and Jen and Sam began kissing, and after that we fitted in just right ! The rest was all a bit of a blur, but I remember a girl laying next to us having an orgasm with her man, and Its so nice to appreciate other people's nude bodies doing more than laying on the beach. It was all very relaxed (except at those frantic moments !), with an equal number of guys and girls. And no, there were not erections waving everywhere !! Well, just enough anyway ! Jay and Sam were obviously quite happy !
My advice for newcomers - find another couple in the same boat and you will find a lot in common. Also, plenty of foreplay ! Guys listen !! - don't start anything too soon even if other people around you are ! A couple you reaally like might come in later ! Just enjoying it at the same pace as another couple means you won't get swept up in that big urge ! And this is a really unique experience so make it last. Also for you swinging guys; another girl will see how well you look after your partner and she might just keep you in mind if she is looking for a guy, although a lot of girls there want to be with other girls too.
Be prepared for other couples to ask if they can join you, but if you don't want to you just say to each of the guy and girl in the couple that you are staying with each other that night they will usually get the message with all smiles.
It does get a bit crowded at times and if having other people touch your partner or yourself accidently (or not) worries you then maybe pick a quiet night if they have those.
If you like other couples seeing you then there are plenty of opportunities !
Jen and Sam if you are reading this then leave us a note ! xxxxx D.

(Jay & Sam correct initials names changed)

Thank you very much for a fantastic night on Friday night, It was a great
experience!
We came to the club full of nerves, and unsure of what to expect, we rang the bell and were met by a very friendly hostess and were asked if we had been before, when we said it no, she could not have been more helpful and explained how the club worked.
We then went up to the bar area and had a glass of wine, it was just like the lounge of any club, with good music playing, although the hard core porn on the tv behind the bar said we were not in any normal club!
There was just one other couple in the club when we arrived, and we quickly got chatting to them as we played pool, there was an immediate spark between the two girls with a bit of flirting going on. Aftera little while they asked if we wanted to go to the spa downstairs, and we headed off to the changing area.We got out our locker key and with a few nerves we stripped off and put our sarongs on to go to the spa.We all climbed in together and chatted for a little while and then the girl started sucking the other guys cock, bit of a surprise, although it shouldn't have been I spose! My girl was not interested in another guy that night, she wanted to try another girl so when the guy tried touching her, she declined his interest and we got out to have a look around the rest of the play areas.
We first came across a small room with a couple of matressess and saw 3 more couples that had came in playing in that room and we watched them for a little while before moving on to the main play area.It had about 12 mattrassess on the floor and although it was empty we were feeling so horny that we dropped our sarongs and I lay my girl down and started to lick her wet pusssy as she stroked her beautiful breasts, she then started sucking my cock.
After a couple of minutes we decided to go for another drink and headed back to the bar area, there were few more couples in by this time and we all introduced ourselves and just chatted, It was then that my girl started chatting to an american girl and the atmosphere was electric between them! It was not long before we were back in the spa and the two girls were kissing and touching each other, it was a very erotic sight. the girls then moved to the main play area as her guy and myself chatted for a couple of minutes before following them through, what an amazing sight it was when we saw them, my girl was laid back stroking her breasts and playing with her nipples as the american girl had her tongue licking gently at my girls clit and was putting her fingers in too making my girl even hornier! the american girls man asked if he could suck my girls nipples but she declined and he respected that.
Then they changed places and my girl went down on her and we both touched her and then we both started sucking her nipples as we touched each other.The sight of these two beautiful girls making love brought a few more couples through to watch and it clearly got them horny too as a few started playing and swapping as they watched. All the guys respected the girls when they declined the advances, except one who was a bit forceful and had to be told a couple of times, which was a bit annoying.
All and all an amazing night, one we will never forget, in fact when we got home, we never got to sleep for hours as we were so horny from the experience!
We were made to feel so comfortable and it didnt even feel strange to be sitting in the bar area surrounded by topless girls, and at no time did it feel sleazy or dirty.
We hope to be back this friday and if its half as good as the first time, another great night is promised.
I would say if anyone is interested in gentle swinging, the couples club is the best place to go first.
If you are in any doubt,email the club, they are superb and will put you at ease.

Sam.  

SEXintheSuburbs

Recent Statistics Show That Sydney's Saucy HouseWives Are Anything But Desperate.

At first glace, Laura* seems so perfect, she's like the remodelled version of Nicole Kidman in The Stepford Wives. She's charming and beautiful 27 year-old housewife, living with her husband of one year Pete*, a tall, dark and handsome 40 year-old stockbroker. They live in a spotless, two storey- house in one of Sydney's exclusive suburbs, Laura is an affluent but average stay-at home wife, who teaches three aerobics classes a week, goes to the supermarket, does yoga, and enjoys gardening and cooking.

On Friday nights they usually go out to a local Restaurant.On Saturday nights Laura changes out of her gardening gear, pours a glass of chardonnay and throws on a skin-thight micro mini and vists a sex club with her husband in tow. This 170cm, size 10 suburban sex kitten is a real and very happy "desperate housewife" and is a regular at The Couples Club in Surry Hills."My neighbours would be really shocked to find out i enjoy visiting a sex club, but it's exciting having my own secret sexual identity, It is an adventure that my husband and I enjoy having together," Laura says "My husband and I first went to The Couples Club about three years ago when we started dating. We love it and sometimes go every week" 

Just like Gabrielle Solis (Eva Longoria) on the TV show desperate Housewives, Laura is highly sexed, stunning, and enjoyes living in the huge house, having a wardrobe full of designer clothes and a husband who adores her. And just like all the show's characters, Laura is hiding a deep, dark secret.

"Going to the Swingers' Club is a very sensual ewperience. We are an open-minded and highly sexed couple and we do every thing together", she says. "but friends, nieghbours and family would be very shocked if they ever found out . Sometimes we'll both have sex with other couples or he'll watch me doing some girl on girl action, or sometimes we'll just have sex with each other in a room with other people around us"
The Couples Club is Australia's original and biggest swingers club.

Manager John Thomas says safe and sexy venues replace the '70s fad of "Key Parties". where couples would swap wives. "key Parties are dead and gone but we've been in Surry Hills for 13 years now" he says "On Saturday nights, probably around half of the crowd are married and come in with their partners from the suburbs. That's usually the popular night for house wives with kids at home and Friday is a slightly younger crowd". There are usually about 30 people there on Friday nights and more than 50 on Saturdays. it's BYO alcohol, and costs $150 per couple for the night. There are six bedroom areas, two orgy rooms and a 15-person spa.
Thomas says swingers' clubs are more popular when they are based in a big city like Sydney, as there is less chance of running into a nosey neighbour in a city of more than four million people.

Internet sites such as Adultmatchmaker.com.au has about a million members across australia, which is more than the largest singles dating website. Sex sites for couples and people looking to spice up their lives are clearly more popular than ever, but Thomas says clients love the instant results from a swingers' club.
"We have couples who have been together since they were 16 and it gives them a chance to put the spark back in their marrage. It's consensual, and they are doing it together. This way housewives and mothers can discover their sexual side without having to go out and have an affair. "Around 50 per cent of the crowd is in their 30s. Women hit their sexual peak in their 30s, so if they got married at 25 and the seven-year itch kicks in, then they're usually looking for some adventure.
Suburban couples need somewhere to go to meet their fantasies.

We have all types of people come in, from house wives, to doctors and people who drive trucks. "We have one very attractive couple who come regularly",says Thomas "They met at school and are in their mid-thirties, and have a teenage child. she's a housewife and he's a professional. None of their friends would have any idea they do this. They look so innocent but they've been swapping partners here for three years and they love it.
"Laura agrees."Sometimes I'll be bored when I'm teaching or shopping or cleaning during the week and I'll think back to what happens at The Club. it's sexually empowering and enhances our already good sex life. When i have a good night there, I leave floating and go back to the suburbs and our nice little neighbourhood where no one knows our sexual secret."

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I once read in a Hustler  Magazine in the 80’s an Article headed “The History of Swinging” it started off by saying “Group sex is not a new thing it has been around for ever, and more people joined together in orgies under the name of religion than at any other time, thousands would be involved and the high priest who presided over these events was John "(my surname) amazing, it was my name how Bizarre, maybe i've come back as myself.

In Sydney it all really started with the publication of a magazine (paper) called Searchlight, back in 1972 published by a man who called himself Mr D, people would place ads with photos, this was revolutionary for the time, to be able to see nude photos and ads of like minded people you could contact and play with, and so the swinging scene in Sydney began.

Then swinging parties started to  happen, in peoples houses at first, and then in hotel rooms, the guy who organised these parties, was an  attractive guy in his 20’s called Rodger, he would place an ad in Searchlight, saying  swinging couples will be meeting at a bar, giving the place time and date, all welcome, wear something yellow to be identified, they ended up being called yellow tie nights, you would arrive look around the bar, spot someone with a yellow piece of clothing, there would be 30 or 40 couples, all crowded in a bar that usually was empty, the staff were all wondering where did all these people come from, and what’s with the yellow, great fun, how else could couples meet, there was no internet. I went to my 1st meeting at the Five Doors Bar on Cleveland St, it was a real eye opener, I was very young only just old enough to be in a bar, there were lots of people too many really, so Rodger grabbed me and my girl, and took us over and introduced us to some other really attractive couples, there were about 25 couples in this section, we were all talking getting to know each other, I noticed all the time Rodger was working the floor, taking the not so attractive couples over to the other side of the bar, and getting them talking, then after a while I heard him say to the other crowd, “who has a place we can go to and have a party”, a couple said ’‘we do”, Rodger took out a pen and wrote down the address and handed it out, saying after a while “lets go we will see you there, OK bye see you soon, bye, and eventually off they all went, then to my amazement he came back to our group, and announced, “well that got rid of the ugly ones now lets all go back to my place for a party!”

So off we all went to Rose Terrace a very small lane parrell with oxford street behind what is now Good Bar, the place was small, we all packed in, people got down to fun, girls were half naked, guys were half naked, and in no time a full blown orgy was under way, I just stood there jammed against the wall looking in amazement, Rodger was standing his arms around two very attractive naked girls, and under the cramped conditions he stepped back right into me, he turned around and said “sorry mate who are you again?”, and he asked, “isn’t that your lady over there?” I said yes, he asked” why are you over here”, I replied "I am just watching".

That was a moment for me, one of those moments you have only once in a life time, I had a strange feeling when the orgy started, the feeling that I was back home at last, I did not know why, (it would be 10 years till I read the article in hustler), I felt connected, it was a deep a very deep sense of belonging, I did not want to join in, just wanted to savour that moment, it lasted and is still with me to this day, for me it is never about getting my rocks off, it’s almost spiritual, tapping these primal desires and instincts, instincts a select few people still have and act on, despite societies conditioning.

Rodger ran parties for many many years, and we are still close friends, he was Sydney’s original King of Swing, The next was Mr D he started to organise parties, and eventually opened Sydney’s 1st Swingers Club, in Cooper St Surry Hills,very near where The Couples Club is today, called the Penthouse Club, it was at the top of a six story building, people had a great time, this Club lasted about 2 years, the next guy who started to run things was Denis, he ran parties at his apartment on New South Head Rd, over looking Rushcutters Bay Park, it was now the mid 80’s we were all having a wild time, we would be with a dozen or more girls in a night, they loved it, we loved it, it was pre AIDS every one had unprotected sex, it was the norm, we didn't know it, but times were about to change.Denis eventually moved to a home unit in Elizabeth Bay, in the same Street as Toff Monks were my brother lived, after several years Denis sold out to a guy from Melbourne called Sergio, Sergio became the next King, he moved things to a terrace in Broham St. Kings Cross, and ran great parties there for years, there was a spa and a bar it was busy and a good looking crowd, I still see Sergio he is a cool guy.

In 1990, I went to a new club that I had heard was opening in Moore Park on South Dowling Street, the door was opened by a tall handsome blonde guy named Peter, there were about seven other couples, almost every one was under thirty and very attractive, especially the girls, three of the couples were international travellers, the night went off, a great success, and that night The Couples Club was born, and as fate would have it I was there.

The Club moved form Moore Park, to it’s current building in 1994, I continued going along and Peter and I became close friends, I had an interesting call from him in 2002, in fact most of the calls from Peter were interesting, he is a real character, he trained at NIDA, and loves to entertain every one, but this call went like this “Mate a girl wants to buy the Club, and I think I am going to sell.” I replied “Mate you can’t do that”, His reply was “I don’t want to sell to her, I want you to take over the Club, you have been living this lifestyle longer than any one, you should take over” he went on “I want to go,i have been doing this for twelve years, I am not making money, and I am sick of getting my cock sucked” so we did a hand shake, and I took over. (Imagine a job interviewer asking, Peter why did you leave your last job? Answer: “I was sick of getting my cock sucked”) The Couples Club is the longest running Swingers Club in Australia, it has been operating for over 15 years, and attracts couples from all walks of life. I feel privileged to be running The Club, a special place where peoples sexual fantasies come true, a club like no other in this country, and few overseas.

A Big Thank You to Peter and to the thousands of couples who have visited The Couples Club over the years for making it what it is.

I say "DON'T DREAM IT, BE IT" ! 

Best Wishes

John 

Holland:
Fun4two       Website: www.fun4two.nl
Undoubtedly the best swingers club I have ever been to, located 40km from Rotterdam this place is great value and is packed with 150 couples every Friday Saturday and Sunday night, the cost is 100 euro, with food and alcohol included.
Built in a heritage listed farm house, the club has a large bar and dance floor area and restaurant down stairs, and on the fantasy levels over 20 play rooms all on a different theme, where you will loose your self, people come from all over europe and infact the world to this club, it is truley international.
The Club is owned and operated by a couple, Laurens and Rineke they oversee every thing, to ensure your visit to Fun4Two is perfect, and it will be.
Summary: I would thoroughly recommend this club to any one, you wont find fault with any thing, Disneyland for Swingers.

France:
Paris: Paris has about 15 clubs, most of which open every night of the week, most Paris Clubs don't open till late 11pm and as a rule don't provide lockers or change facilities.

La'chandel: 1 rue Therefe (near louvre)
This club is truly Paris Class, built in catacombs below the street, but fitted out like the plushest of night clubs.
La'chandel is very hard to get into, it's all about how your girl looks at the door, they turn away two hundred and take in one hundred couples nightly, so have a back up plan if you go, in case you don't get in, if you get in it is a real experience, the couples are all dressed to kill the cream of Paris, just looking around the crowd is exciting, the club has only three bedroom areas, but this club it is not about sex it is about being there.
Summary: If you can get in, you will have a great night, cost of entry 80 euro, no comp drinks any more, watch the cost of drinks!  water (tap) $30 AUD beer $60 AUD  if your not carefull you will get a bill at the end of the night for $500.
unlike the night we went to Valerie the owners Birthday Party a couple of years ago, we drank French champagne all night and it was all free.

Overside:  92 rue Cherche Midi Gaterie le sevrien 75006 PARIS
This club opened to take up the couples turned away from la Chandel, it is very well appointed, big dance floor, good bedrooms, places to watch the action. VIP booths which I don't like, I don't think clubs should be them and us, the music is good, good mix of people, it gets busy but not in the class of la Chandel
Summary: My number two choice in Paris.

Two + Two:  9 boulevard Edgard Quinet -75014 Paris  www.2plus2.fr
The original swingers club founded in 1974, and still going strong, a nice cosy club with plenty on action, which is rare in French clubs, girls must wear a skirt to get in. I have had some great nights here, the mix of exotic looking people in the bedrooms can be amazing, women from all over the world, something you don't ever see in Australian clubs.
Summary: My third choice in Paris, can be really good and every one plays.

Au Pluriel Club:  13 rue Francois Miron PARIS 4e
One of the original clubs in Paris, a bit older crowd, and single guys make it not every ones cup of tea, there is a buffet from 8pm till 10pm included in the entry fee.
The club is on three levels, the bottom level has a dance floor, and some bedroom areas, it is fun and if you don't like the extra guys just shoo them away.
Summary: Younger couples or couples who don't like extra guys around probably wont like it.

le Nautilus:  18, rue feydeau  75002   PARIS   www.lenautilus.net
Nice small well fitted out club, open plan with inter connecting cubicles, where if you like the couple in the next cubical you can slip thru the wall and play with them.
Summary: Nice friendly club can be a bit quiet at times.

NO Comment:  36 rue de Ponthieu 75008 PARIS
Again built to take the rejected couples from la Chandel, and no expense was spared, we went there just after they opened and were greeted at the door by the owners daughters each holding in their arms real baby tigers.
Very plush venue massive dance floor, the bedroom areas are exciting but small, and like lots of people who open clubs and throw cash at them, it just does not work some how, and the club didn't take off.
On our last visit, they had started to let in selected single well groomed guys, and there were lots of lovely single young model looking girls there too, who flirted with us and the guys, I got the feeling they were available at an extra cost.
Summary: Great looking club, was too quiet so along with couples you get a mix of pretty girls, and selected single guys with cash (now they get their money back) 

le Chateau: 103 rue Marceder, PARIS 18e
A different club, very alternative mix, with transvestites and couples all thrown together, I tried to get into the mood, but with a two metre high body builder in drag with fingers thicker than my big toe, trying hard to fuck me and my woman, some how i just couldn't relax, in fairness it was a theme night, the club looks great and I believe they have made it even better.
Summary: If you like alternate this place is for you.

Cap D'Agde Naturist Resort South of France

The Naturist Resort at Cap D'Agde is the largest nudist resort in the world, boasting 10,000 beds, the resort opens for the summer only, June to 1st October, built in the 1970's,  it is a massive private beach area, with condominiums shops restaurants and night clubs, six or seven of which are Swingers Clubs, but the action doesn't start there it starts on the beach, up until 2002 couples would go into the sand dunes behind the beach and have fun together,  and with thousands of people on the beach the choices were endless, and in the dunes there would be pockets of all types of play going on, from just two couples having sex together, through to crowds of people having sex, and in true European style, there would be no fuss, no one being pushy or aggressive, every one being polite, every one having sexy fun.
In 2002 this changed the cunt-stabullary sent in mounted police, they ride through the dunes and issue infringement notices for indecency, if you are caught in a sexual act, I don't know how to you identify yourself when you are nude, or put the ticket, but now people rarely go off the beach into the dunes any more, the action is different now.

There is a section of beach up past the police box, a mile up the beach from the families, some days at around 6pm when the day is almost over, the police have gone home for the day, and every one is horny, people all laying around naked and up close to each other, you get this collective buzz in the air, I have never felt it before, it's tangable it's like that calm before a massive thunder storm, the air is charged with sexual energy, attractive people looking at each other, with lusty eyes, looking at each others genitals, the subtle opening of legs to show off a vagina, someone touching their lover, then a lick, lots of licks and touching, people moving around and then the sound of a women's orgasm, which excites the 1,000 strong crowd even more, people see others doing things, and they start doing things, it's catching, people are now openly fucking, it is really exciting to watch this transition into a mass orgy, and in no time a full blown mass orgy is under way, and no amount of policemen could stop it.
The Clubs:
The Clubs are different here, the cost of entry is free or inexpensive, people go to many clubs on the one night, they are just like a regular night club, you buy your drinks from the bar, sit around in the bar lounge area, and meet people, but some where there are bedrooms you may have to go looking for them.

Tantra:
This is the best of the clubs, it is on the beach, has a restaurant and is fitted out beautifully, the bedroom areas are good and are usually packed with people, and the action is great, but in summer it can be really hot.

Le Juls:
Not so upmarket as Tantra, free entry before midnight, it holds about 150 people, the dancing and music are great the bedroom area is small you have trouble getting in, and when you do it is pretty much standing room only, but it is free, you just buy drinks have a dance, have a play if you can and move on, that's what every one does.

Other Clubs:
There are about 4 or 5 other clubs, they vary in their appeal and entry costs, several cater for single guys along with the couples, they are all fun at different times of the night, some clubs kick early in the night which is around 11pm and others really get going around 2pm, remember every one is on holiday, this is a naturist resort, all the women are dressed with next to nothing on, they would be arrested anywhere else in the world, the dress code is Flesh or Fetish for both girls and guys, people come from all over the world to be there, it's horny, it's out there, it's wild fun.

(Optional Reading)
We met a couple in one of these clubs the girls was very very attractive about 22 the guy also attractive 26, they asked us back to their apartment, when we got there he made us a couple of drinks, the action started it was fabulous, after some time I was thinking god I am flying, I asked Nikki are you OK she said yes this is great, it was, then after a while I noticed an extra guy in the action, I though that's cool,he was early 20's, then a bit later there were a couple more guys, then some time later there was a knock on the door, in French I heard a guy say "security" a bit more chat in French, then the owner comes in and says you will have to go, I said why, he said because there is 8 more guys waiting outside to come in, and some one has complained an bout them, so we left, when we got outside we were totally lost and confused, I had only had 4 beers, after a while we realised we had been given a date rape drug, there are notices all over the place warning you to be careful.
(Went looking for them the next night to do it all again, with out the drugs, but we couldn't find them).

Travel:
I have found the best way to get there is to take the very fast train the SNCF from Paris, it is cheap and fast, the cost is about AUD 120 return, per person, it is about 1,000 km the train travels at 360 km per hour, the trip takes about 3.5 hours.

Accommodation:
Book online and book no later that February for the season, to book for August book the year before. be shore to get a room with air conditioning, it gets really hot and you want sleep with out one. the cost varies but 9 days in a self contained bed sit cost AUD 1,100 in July.

I hope you find this information helpful and informative.

Best Wishes
John

We are about to be in an orgy with total strangers.

How did we end up here? How has this happened?

Rewind back 18 months. I was recently divorced. Luckily I met a fantastic, wonderful woman who was in the same situation as I. We hit it off, and fell in love. Our sex life was good, damn good actually. We kept on pushing boundaries, trying new things and talking about our desires. Melinda (named changed) told me she wanted to try another girl. I thought about this for a microsecond, cried tears of happiness & told her I would support her.

Melinda had been on a few disastrous dates and was rather frustrated that she had not found the right girl. One night I was chatting to a girl on ICQ and she casually suggested I try a certain little club in Sydney. Melinda and I looked at the website which was quite impressive, and we decided to give it a go. The club is the only one in town where single men and prostitutes were not allowed; you have to be part of a couple or a single girl to get in. We discussed ground rules in advance; Melinda was going to try her luck with girls. She was not ready to see me with another girl, as she was nervous enough about the life-changing experience she hoped would happen. If all went well we may change the rules for our next visit, if there was to be one. I would be lying if I said I was not a little disappointed with this, but I understood where Melinda was coming from and accepted it.

The drive into Sydney saw us say hardly a word. We were excited, nervous and very curious all at once.

Once inside we were met by an attractive lady in her early 30's who took our $140 entry fee and explained the workings of the club. We went right to the bar and downed a few champagnes to calm our nerves, then looked around. We were in a large lounge bar room which looked very tasteful. It could have been anylounge bar, except for the 40 inch plasma TV on the wall that was showing hard core porn. We looked around and saw about 10 other well dressed couples, aged 20 to about 45. All were sitting alone and clearly nervous. It was like a high school dance, everyone too scared to make a move.

After a drink or 5 we started playing pool. A couple came up and we played a game of doubles. She was a very attractive brunette, he was about 40 and a bit fat. After small talk she asked Melinda what she wanted. Melinda told her she wanted to play with me and a girl, but not another man. Her man lost interest & took his girl away; if he could not get any luvvin' he saw no need to talk to us.

Eventually we made our way downstairs to the 14 person spa. There were a few couples in there, all naked. We both said , "to hell with it" and stripped off. We jumped in & the water felt great. Melinda started talking to a girl called Mysti and her man. Within a few minutes the girls were kissing. Both seemed rather happy with it too! Mysti slowed it down as she could see Melinda was nervous. At this time I was sitting next to Melinda & felt her hand on my old fellah. The handjob felt fantastic, but under the bubbles I could not see a thing. Melinda looked at me strangely after a while and said "Babe, that's not me doing that!" Mysti was a bit closer that I thought!!! I almost passed out with embarrassment, but we all had a great laugh & it broke the ice. Mysti and Melinda played some more, but as her man was not going to be included, they went off to a room.

We got out of the spa and went to the main orgy room. It was a room with nothing but 12 large mattresses on the floor, and containers for condoms and tissues. All the other couples were there. It was obvious there was multiple partner swapping going on. It seemed the order of the night was for partners to swap while the 2 women involved kissed while being shagged. Two women were having sex with 2 men at the same time. We laid down and started having sex. Mysti laid down next to us and started kissing and fondling Melinda while her man did her. Melinda loved it, and did not seem to mind too much when Melinda kissed me too.

The night continued on in that vein. Melinda did not get exactly what she wanted, but we both had an excellent night. We were making plans to return before we left.

One of the things that struck me about the club was apart from about 5 very stunning women, everyone there was just so normal. They could easily be your neighbour, librarian or your parents. There were no men with gold chains and fertility symbols on their chests, no skanky Jerry-Springer Ho's. These are people with two things in common: very secure relationships and a love of sex. I would say about 95% of the women were bisexual. I did not see any men getting it on, which was a relief.

Clearly the club is not for everyone. I would not recommend going there if you are not comfortable with seeing your partner with another person/persons. Melinda does not want any other man than me, and (just about) all the men only have to be told once and back off, but she still gets a hand on the bum & breast now and then. I would not recommend going to the club if your relationship is not in a very healthy state. I can almost guarantee you that it will cause problems if you do. If you do want to go, talk to your partner openly and honestly, and make sure you establish rules.

Going to the club has been an amazing eye opening experience for us. We have met some really good people there from varied backgrounds and age. We now go every 5-6 weeks. Every time is different, which makes it more exciting. We have expanded our rules 1 step at a time and are both very happy with what happens there. I can honestly say it has brought a lot closer, as we can be open with our desires and share the experiences. I would not call us swingers as we do not do full swaps, but we have a fantastic time every time. Since then we have been to the club about 12 times. We now go with Melinda's girlfriend and will continue to go whenever time and finances allow it.

Like I said, swinging is not for everyone, but if you and your partner are curious enough, why not give it a go?

Adam & Kay…they are our real names…lol